“I am sorry”?
Most of us think saying “I am sorry” is all it takes to resolve all problems created but the truth of the matter is that it never does.
Saying I am sorry after shooting someone out of anger does not repair the damage caused, insulting your business partner or subordinate because you are angered can never be repaired just because you said I am sorry.
Even though your partner may accept your “I Am Sorry” after you’ve cheated on him or her, the pain can never be washed out of his/er mind.
Saying “I Am Sorry” can never do away the pain you caused someone. The person may forgive wholeheartedly but forgetting it entirely is impossible.
Willfully committing wrong towards or against someone can never be repaired no matter how long it takes even though you have been forgiven.
The only thing that can repair more than saying “I am sorry” is to not commit the wrong at all. You have every right to go angry but if you follow your heart, you will do more damage than what was done towards you. It is advisable to leave the scene so not to retaliate than to retaliate if you can’t keep yourself under check.
If it’s between your spouse and you in the room, excuse yourself to go and drink a cup of water. The seconds or minutes that you spend in going for the water will cool you down.
We must at all times know that, pain caused is irreparable and we must stay away from causing damages at all cost.
OKUMANINI ASARE GYAWU TIMOTHY
LET US ALL BUILD THE WORLD WE WANT
DON’T ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART BUT SOMETIMES FOLLOW MORALITY
STAY WISE AND BE BLESSED