THE IMPROPER WAY OF SAYING “NON HARMFUL” THINGS

Many relationships break down as a result of saying “non-harmful things” to our partners.
Harmless things are relative depending on who or the relations you have built with one another. Many of us wrongfully and unconsciously say things that we presume are not harmful but in reality are.
In my senior high school days, my close friends as well as our Accounting teacher and I used to call each other “cockroach”. This term came by when we were eating our hot afternoon lunch with our teacher one day in his house. The teacher wouldn’t feel bad if called a “cockroach” by any one of us just as my friends wouldn’t because we all considered it harmless but people standing by would always think we were insulting each other.
We completed senior high and went to our respective places but I unconsciously used the term “cockroach” any time I spoke to colleagues who were this time not the senior high school friends and they didn’t like it. Graciously, these colleagues got used to it and embraced it so we referred to each other as “cockroach”. As time went by, I left that town and I was able to let go with time.
Why these entire cockroach and mosquito or whatever talk? My girlfriend (not intimate, just platonic, not one I am dating or courting but just a friend) came to my work place and as she entered I asked her; “what are you doing here (jokingly)? The reason I asked this question is that my church was having some games and I thought she would be there so what I meant with that question was why she wasn’t at the games?
When I asked that question, the Holy Spirit spoke to me that, “such questions are not permissible and they are tearing relationships apart” he said if she were my girlfriend (intimate), she wouldn’t want to come to my place of work and even this lady also wouldn’t want to come because she would think I would ask her what she wanted even without asking about her health or something a friend would ask another friend. I didn’t even tell her to sit, nor did I offer her water and all I could do was to ask what she was doing at my place. I felt bad even in her presence because the Holy Spirit was talking to me in her presence without her knowledge. Of course she knows I am the playful type but she wouldn’t expect that question because it will mean to her that she was not welcomed.
We also have to be careful about how we speak to our partners, especially when the relationship is very young. It will take time for your partner to come to terms with your jovial attitude. What you take as a joke may be a serious issue for another since you are all coming from different backgrounds. When I meet with my brothers (my best friends), we tease ourselves as if we hate each other but its just our style and would like to behave in same manner with my girlfriend (intimate) or wife (when married) but it wouldn’t be easy in the early stage until she get used to that kind of attitude. The best kind of relationships is one that the parties play as if they are fighting and that eventually will reduce the chances of real fights but such attitude needs to be nurtured and inculcated into each other. A friend once told me that “I always joke with things, for she is okay with that because she is used to that jovial attitude of mine but anyone who doesn’t know such attitude will consider me rude whiles it’s just a joke.
Let us be careful how we joke with things especially in our relationships, they can make the relationship work or destroy it.
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A NONCHALANTIC LOVE

Love is beautiful and great and can equally be sour if not tended to.
I laugh my ribs out when I hear or see the way people treat love.
Love is not static like a tree, even trees shake. Love is like the sea, it moves and also carry anything along but rejects the unwanted things.
I hear many times, people saying; I won’t show that I love him or her or she or he will cheat on me, that is so funny my brother, my sister.
I would rather you would be seen as a fool than a stony hearted person.
Love is like a pet, you need to care for it or it finds the next welcoming arms to fall into. You don’t act Nonchalantly and keep on praying to God to make your partner love you whiles you don’t show how much you love them.
People keep hiding their feelings and end up getting left, why don’t they try the other side of the coin?
Even God showed how much he loved the world by showing the way to salvation, he would have hidden it for us to find it ourselves but the adverse is the truth. Love needs to be showed not hidden.
Mind you, you do yourself good for showing how much you love your partner for them to be sure of what you guys are into, this does not apply to just one person but both parties.
Our world today is full of painful and broken hearts because of NONCHALANT LOVE.
Communication, thus, is the best way to show the love, either verbal or oral. Love needs to be fed not kept famished. Open up to your partner for them to know how to be of help.
Nonchalantic love should never be encouraged but be outwitted from our hearts.

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EXACTLY WHAT YOU ASK FOR

In this life, you actually get exactly what you ask for or expect, either good or bad.
Your approach to anything in life is the exactitude of your expectations. Many enter into a relationship or marriage to see whether it will break on the way along and it breaks because that’s exactly their expectation.
People enter into an enterprise to see whether it will land on the rock and it eventually does.
Recently in a group I am in, a kind of rift arose with people complaining that they intentionally kept mute on the page to see if others will ask of them.
I never said anything about it but the Holy Spirit gave me this message that in this life, you don’t get what you don’t expect. You went off to see if people will not ask of you and surely they never did because it was your expectation. The Holy bible says that; God does not tempt, why because, people might fall for the temptations. You put something in someone’s way to see if that person will fail and if he or she fails, you think that is how they are. No, that is not their character but they failed because it was your expectation. As a lady, you dress sexually to tempt that young man of God and if he makes advances towards you, you brand him as a bad man. Remember, body no be firewood.
You go to someone’s office to tempt him with bribe like Anas and if he or she takes it, you run him or her down as a corrupt individual. Do you know the kind of difficulty that person might be going through financially at that moment?
It’s just like tempting a kid with toffee or chocolate just to see if he or she will fail. Obviously, there will be a fall. Don’t tempt your loved one to see if he or she will fail because unconsciously, you will expect him or her to fail and it will materialise.
You are going into a prayer and you do it doubting and you think you will get an answer? Though I wrote sometime ago that *”expectations are not reality”* but it doesn’t take away the fact that you get what you ask for

*TURNING BACK HANDS OF TIME*

*TURNING BACK HANDS OF TIME*

Turning back hands of time is a fantasy that never happen ever in one’s life.
Many of us, instead of forgetting the past and pressing on to achieve something great in the future, we get stuck in thoughts of that past in which we failed in achieving a dream.
Time, no matter how short or long it had been spent can never ever happen or repeat itself again and even if it did, what is the assurance that you would succeed in the second chance?
There are people who repeated the same mistake they did in their first marriage or relationship or job or opportunity which led to another breakup, what opportunity again do they need?
There’s an adage that goes like: “yafunu bòne ennim sɛ m’asa”. So no matter how many times time repeats itself, we can never correct what is done because we tend to forget earlier than super beings.
Don’t kill yourself because you failed an exam or your relationship ended in a way you did not expect it to, a lady/guy rejected your proposal and so? The fact that you lost that opportunity does not necessitate a suicide or giving up, press on.
We always prepare for positives and so when the negatives drop in, we get stacked and lose the interest of going on, “life must go on”. We normally say that “when we get to the river Jordan we will cross” but I put it this way; “when I get to the river Jordan I will cross it even if it is stormy”. I don’t just say it but I do with a conviction and a firm stand.
That situation you call the highest predicament you have ever experienced is the least for someone so don’t harm yourself for any reason or failure. I have failed many times but still life must go on, you’ve had the opportunity to enter the university and if you fail a mock exam you think it is the end of the world, someone only holds SSSCE/WASSCE certificate yet the person is so happy about it.
Your friends/younger siblings/subordinates are married and in serious relationships but you still are searching, does that bring the world to an end? God’s time is the best.
You lost your job and so? You’ve run bankrupt so what? Keep on keeping on.
Do you think turning back hands of time has never happen before?
God did it once, by repeating the atonement of Jesus’ blood for the world which occurred even before the foundation of the world, thousands of years after creating the world but he never changed anything about the death of Christ. Its significance is that, even God himself doesn’t turn back hands of time to change the things that already occurred. He could have let another person die in Christ’s stead but he never did. Wise up my brother, wise up my sister.
Turning back hands of time is not a necessity but getting up from the mud in which you fell, cleaning up the muddy waters and moving on to achieve something greater are the necessities and luxuries of life.
The elixirs of success are confidence, faith, trust, hardworking and the likes not throwing in the towel.

*SAY NO TO SUICIDE*

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*TURNING BACK HANDS OF TIME*

*TURNING BACK HANDS OF TIME*

Turning back hands of time is a fantasy that never happen ever in one’s life.
Many of us, instead of forgetting the past and pressing on to achieve something great in the future, we get stuck in thoughts of that past in which we failed in achieving a dream.
Time, no matter how short or long it had been spent can never ever happen or repeat itself again and even if it did, what is the assurance that you would succeed in the second chance?
There are people who repeated the same mistake they did in their first marriage or relationship or job or opportunity which led to another breakup, what opportunity again do they need?
There’s an adage that goes like: “yafunu bòne ennim sɛ m’asa”. So no matter how many times time repeats itself, we can never correct what is done because we tend to forget earlier than super beings.
Don’t kill yourself because you failed an exam or your relationship ended in a way you did not expect it to, a lady/guy rejected your proposal and so? The fact that you lost that opportunity does not necessitate a suicide or giving up, press on.
We always prepare for positives and so when the negatives drop in, we get stacked and lose the interest of going on, “life must go on”. We normally say that “when we get to the river Jordan we will cross” but I put it this way; “when I get to the river Jordan I will cross it even if it is stormy”. I don’t just say it but I do with a conviction and a firm stand.
That situation you call the highest predicament you have ever experienced is the least for someone so don’t harm yourself for any reason or failure. I have failed many times but still life must go on, you’ve had the opportunity to enter the university and if you fail a mock exam you think it is the end of the world, someone only holds SSSCE/WASSCE certificate yet the person is so happy about it.
Your friends/younger siblings/subordinates are married and in serious relationships but you still are searching, does that bring the world to an end? God’s time is the best.
You lost your job and so? You’ve run bankrupt so what? Keep on keeping on.
Do you think turning back hands of time has never happen before?
God did it once, by repeating the atonement of Jesus’ blood for the world which occurred even before the foundation of the world, thousands of years after creating the world but he never changed anything about the death of Christ. Its significance is that, even God himself doesn’t turn back hands of time to change the things that already occurred. He could have let another person die in Christ’s stead but he never did. Wise up my brother, wise up my sister.
Turning back hands of time is not a necessity but getting up from the mud in which you fell, cleaning up the muddy waters and moving on to achieve something greater are the necessities and luxuries of life.
The elixirs of success are confidence, faith, trust, hardworking and the likes not throwing in the towel.

*SAY NO TO SUICIDE*

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*ASARE GYAWU TIMOTHY*

*TURNING BACK HANDS OF TIME*

*TURNING BACK HANDS OF TIME*

Turning back hands of time is a fantasy that never happen ever in one’s life.
Many of us, instead of forgetting the past and pressing on to achieve something great in the future, we get stuck in thoughts of that past in which we failed in achieving a dream.
Time, no matter how short or long it had been spent can never ever happen or repeat itself again and even if it did, what is the assurance that you would succeed in the second chance?
There are people who repeated the same mistake they did in their first marriage or relationship or job or opportunity which led to another breakup, what opportunity again do they need?
There’s an adage that goes like: “yafunu bòne ennim sɛ m’asa”. So no matter how many times time repeats itself, we can never correct what is done because we tend to forget earlier than super beings.
Don’t kill yourself because you failed an exam or your relationship ended in a way you did not expect it to, a lady/guy rejected your proposal and so? The fact that you lost that opportunity does not necessitate a suicide or giving up, press on.
We always prepare for positives and so when the negatives drop in, we get stacked and lose the interest of going on, “life must go on”. We normally say that “when we get to the river Jordan we will cross” but I put it this way; “when I get to the river Jordan I will cross it even if it is stormy”. I don’t just say it but I do with a conviction and a firm stand.
That situation you call the highest predicament you have ever experienced is the least for someone so don’t harm yourself for any reason or failure. I have failed many times but still life must go on, you’ve had the opportunity to enter the university and if you fail a mock exam you think it is the end of the world, someone only holds SSSCE/WASSCE certificate yet the person is so happy about it.
Your friends/younger siblings/subordinates are married and in serious relationships but you still are searching, does that bring the world to an end? God’s time is the best.
You lost your job and so? You’ve run bankrupt so what? Keep on keeping on.
Do you think turning back hands of time has never happen before?
God did it once, by repeating the atonement of Jesus’ blood for the world which occurred even before the foundation of the world, thousands of years after creating the world but he never changed anything about the death of Christ. Its significance is that, even God himself doesn’t turn back hands of time to change the things that already occurred. He could have let another person die in Christ’s stead but he never did. Wise up my brother, wise up my sister.
Turning back hands of time is not a necessity but getting up from the mud in which you fell, cleaning up the muddy waters and moving on to achieve something greater are the necessities and luxuries of life.
The elixirs of success are confidence, faith, trust, hardworking and the likes not throwing in the towel.

*SAY NO TO SUICIDE*

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*ASARE GYAWU TIMOTHY*

MARRIAGE CORNER

*LITTLE THINGS COUNT IN MARRIAGE*

*For Women*

I have sat down and had a little talk with the greatest marriage counselor (The Holy Spirit) and has come out with some few things that will help shape marriages a lot.
1. The first thing has got to do with *bathing before bed*.
I have dubbed it *BBB 1*,
many couples do not bath before they retire to bed after the hard day’s work with all the dried sweat all over the body.
Dried sweat smells very bad and everyone must know it. It takes a few minutes to shower to save you from the broken heart that bad odour will cost you. Sweat comes out of all over our body and when they dry, it leaves some dirt and stinks at some vantage points and when they get the chance, they blow “fuse”😂😂.
The women sweat around their sexual organs (in between the thighs), the armpits, at the back of the thighs in between the thighs and the buttocks (the meeting points), under and around the breast, some women also sweat around the nose, etc.
Every woman has to take a shower to get rid of the odour that will be generated from those places so that the husbands will enjoy having sex and prevent them from cheating outside the matrimonial settings.

*Stay tuned for the other little things.*

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MARRIAGE CORNER

*LITTLE THINGS COUNT IN MARRIAGE*

*For Men*

I have sat down and had a little talk with the greatest marriage counselor (The Holy Spirit) and has come out with some few things that will help shape marriages a lot.
1. The first thing has got to do with *bathing before bed*.
I have dubbed it *BBB 1*,
many couples do not bath before they retire to bed after the hard day’s work with all the dried sweat all over the body.
Dried sweat smells very bad and everyone must know it. It takes a few minutes to shower to save you from the broken heart that bad odour will cost you. Sweat comes out of all over our body and when they dry, it leaves some dirt and stinks at some vantage points and when they get the chance, they blow “fuse”😂😂.
The men sweat around their sexual organs (including around the scrotum), the armpits, the back of the thighs in between the thighs and the buttocks (the meeting points), some men like myself sweat around the nose, etc.
Every man has to take a shower to get rid of the odour that will be generated from those places so that the wives will stop denying them sex and prevent them from cheating outside the matrimonial settings.

Stay tuned for the other little things.

*Please share it around to save marriages and upcoming ones.*

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DAY OF NINEVEH

GHANA DAY OF NINEVEH

I dub this day, Wednesday, 25/03/20 as “THE DAY OF NINEVEH”.
What is the day of Nineveh?
It is the day declared by the highest authority of a nation as fasting and prayers unto the God of our fathers and us. When the King of Nineveh declared the fasting, everyone partook including animals. God “had no choice than to forgive their land”.
The President, the first gentleman of Ghana, Nana Addo Dankwa Akuffo Addo declared today a fasting and prayer day because of Covid 19 and majority of us, if not all of us are partakers. As I was praying the second prayer point, which is *forgiveness for the land*, it dawned in my spirit to name this day; *the day of Nineveh*, the day Ghana cried unto God Almighty.
He surely will answer us as a people.

*#DAYOFNINEVEH*
*#GHANADAYOFNINEVEH*
*#PRAYFORGHANA*CRYINGTOOURMAKER*

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UNGUIDED FAITH (COVID 19)

In recent times, a pandemic has arose perilously, killing believers and non-believers alike.
COVID 19 is a killer disease, sending people to their graves unannounced.
Directives are being giving out every now and then. President Nana Addo Dankwa Akuffo Addo gave an order or state of emergency as enshrined in the Constitution of Ghana which he said all gatherings should be on hold for a period of one month including church services. Now, many pastors are disrespecting this order contrary to the very manual they use which is the bible. The bible admonishes us to give honour to authorities and the order given is also from authorities for the safety of ours. An epidemic happened in Egypt when the Israelites were in slavery, death was sent by God but this same God, who has power over everything, ordered the Israelites to go into hiding overnight, the bible says, the first born of every Egyptian home died but the Israelites were not affected. When Jesus Christ came to the world and was born, kids were being killed. God, the one who has power over everything on earth ordered Joseph to run away to Egypt with the baby (Jesus). God could have just let them stay in Bethlehem without being found but he ordered them to run away.
The order given does not mean Christianity is being abolished in Ghana but we the citizens are being protected from the pandemic. The first born of every Israelis home did not die only because they followed the order Moses gave, Jesus Christ was not killed not because he was protected in Bethlehem but because he was sent away from Israel to Egypt. Will we be able to live and worship God if we are affected by the pandemic?
A word to the wise is enough.

*#PREVENTCOVID19*
*#SAYNOTOCORONAVIRUS*
*STAYHEALTHYTOWORSHIPGOD*

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REST

Rest means resigning from something that is in progress. After creation, the Creator rested on the seventh day. One thing we must all take note of is that, the Creator did not rest just because it was the seventh day. Something notable happened which influenced and necessitated the rest. What is this notable happening? The creator after creating things for six days, saw that, now everything he had created was good and okay and perfect. The work then was finished and there was nothing to do anymore. The creation was good and okay so he rested on the seventh day. The day as I said was not important to him whether it was the second or hundredth day but that he had finished his work and saw that everything he had created was good and perfect. Only then did he rest and not because he was tired. It is same in your case, your creator created you and is still working things out for you until the day he will see that everything he has done in you is good and perfect. He will then bless that day and rest in your case, hang in there just a little while. Is it a job you are looking for, marriage, money or peaceful mind? Just hang in there a little while. Don’t commit suicide or give up on your self cos he is not tired in your case and never will he be.

#*LIVEHOPEFULLY*
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