“I AM SORRY” DOES NOT MATTER ALWAYS

“I am sorry”?

Most of us think saying “I am sorry” is all it takes to resolve all problems created but the truth of the matter is that it never does.
Saying I am sorry after shooting someone out of anger does not repair the damage caused, insulting your business partner or subordinate because you are angered can never be repaired just because you said I am sorry.
Even though your partner may accept your “I Am Sorry” after you’ve cheated on him or her, the pain can never be washed out of his/er mind.
Saying “I Am Sorry” can never do away the pain you caused someone. The person may forgive wholeheartedly but forgetting it entirely is impossible.
Willfully committing wrong towards or against someone can never be repaired no matter how long it takes even though you have been forgiven.
The only thing that can repair more than saying “I am sorry” is to not commit the wrong at all. You have every right to go angry but if you follow your heart, you will do more damage than what was done towards you. It is advisable to leave the scene so not to retaliate than to retaliate if you can’t keep yourself under check.
If it’s between your spouse and you in the room, excuse yourself to go and drink a cup of water. The seconds or minutes that you spend in going for the water will cool you down.
We must at all times know that, pain caused is irreparable and we must stay away from causing damages at all cost.

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PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE

Many seminars going on around teach on Preparation towards marriage where we are told how to prepare to enter into marriage and also how to cut down on wedding expenses and stuff.
They are all good but I take another dimension of talking on preparing one’s self for marriage. Marriage is a ministry on its own and once you are called into it, it is your duty to make it successful. Divorce is not an option to be considered in marriage when problems arise. Marriage is a human institution, consisting of imperfect persons so there is no guarantee of not having problems. A marriage without problems is just hanging like the surface of cow dung, the surface dries but the middle is as fresh as was excreted.
What then should we do since problems in marriage are inevitable? That brings us to the message “PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE”.
Most often you hear people say when we get to the River Jordan we will cross but when problems begin to rise, they run from facing them. I always teach people a sure way to cross the River Jordan better, which is to have the will and zeal to cross it even if it’s stormy. You don’t turn back just because it’s stormy.
Many people are of the view that they won’t marry a Pastor, such people I ask them what they will do if they marry someone who is not a Pastor and years later God calls him or her into ministry. What will you do when your husband or wife loses one of his or her members (amputated)? You don’t want to marry a popular person, what if years later your unpopular partner becomes popular will you set apart?
I am not giving all these to tell you to ignore your preferences but to wake you up that the things you dislike can come along as you grow with your partner but the solution is not to divorce but to adapt to the new situation. Life is full of surprises that we don’t have control over, the only thing we can do is to adapt to the new situations and make them suit our choices. No one knows tomorrow
If we will prepare our minds to stake to our partner when the unforeseeable happen, divorce rate will be reduced to the barest minimum.

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CRAZING WORLD

The world we live in is going crazy and we think all is well but I say no, all is not well.
Day in day out, you hear abominable things that people claim are not abominable any more.
Righteousness has lost its power and sin has become a norm. Everything is all about sex, sex, sex. Even in a church with a pastor standing in front of the pew preaching, all a young lady is thinking is “ah, pastor looks sexy today”. After closing, you try all you can to have a one on one chat with the Pastor and instead of you telling him how good or bad his preaching was today, all you can say is; “Pastor, you look sexy today”. Why won’t pastors fornicate with their members when all the members see is their sexiness? Did you go to church to see how sexy the pastor is or to worship God? Repent, Christ is coming.
A young lady posts a picture on social media and all the young guys could think of is sex, sex, sex, so all you see them posting is; “You look sexy”. Where has morality gone too, where has good salvation messages gone to?
As a young pastor, you can’t talk against sin in the pulpit because you sleep around with the young ladies in the church so all you can do is to preach prosperity and sell items as if they can save the members. Repent my fellow worker, Christ is coming, he is soaking your cane in kerosene.
As a pretty, beautiful, fair/dark, presentable, perfectly crafted young lady, amongst all the pictures and videos in the world, all you can post to that unmarried young Pastor /Apostle/Evangelist is pornographic materials, what do you think you are doing to him? Repent, Christ is soaking your cane in a contaminated fuel. His anger towards you is glowing.
As a church member, all you can do with your fellow member is to gossip? Aaabah! God needs your gossiping skills to preach the message of salvation.
If we all decide to be the Daniels, Shedrachs, Meshachs and Abednegos of our time, we won’t be eating the foods on the table of the devil. There are many women and men around, stop having sex with your fellow men or fellow women. Its an abomination, the mixture of all the fuels and fire is your abode in hell. Repent, Christ is almost here.
If we all be like Joseph-Jacob, we won’t be chasing after pleasures of the body as we see around today. Why can’t you stay with your wife or husband alone? If staying alone becomes hard for you, get married and stop changing ladies or guys as if you are changing dresses. Aside idolatry, one thing God cannot stand is adulatory/fornication/adultery so stop messing around. God is building your cane with brimstone.
Helping others is godly but pulling others down is devilish so my dear politicians stay wise.
Odii, stop the lies and say only what YHWH tells you, if you don’t have a message on that day in the service, let the people go. Don’t fabricate stories to influence them to stay.
Healing the world from its craziness is our duty not God’s.

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POINT OF VIEW

“Point of view” is a particular attitude or way of considering a matter or the position from which something or someone is observed.
If you write the number six in figure (6) on the floor or even on a piece of paper, the person standing at one side of it will see it as six (6) whiles the one standing at the other side will see it as nine (9).
Being stiff necked about an issue can never bring a solution to a matter. Many friends go apart due to the issue of “POINT OF VIEW”.
What you consider important may be less important to someone else, which is what the Economists call “SCALE OF PREFERENCE”.
You weigh two or more things and you consider one to be more in value than the other(s).
For every relationship to work well, priorities should be spelt out very well even at its inception. You consider going to all church activities equally important and would like to go to all these activities. Your Wife/Husband also considers going for Sunday/Saturday morning service alone is enough. In such an issue, you two will have to go into an agreement for a peaceful coexistence because it can be a cause for separation.
Having an expensive or less expensive engagement or marriage ceremony, the choice of car/bed/set of utensils to buy may be your choice whiles the opposite is your partner’s and so you have to come to a compromise about this matter.
The reason why it’s always better to get married to someone who believes as you do is that, faith I something can cause a very huge misunderstanding which can lead to separation. That is why I always champion the campaign of couples marrying in the same denomination if not the same congregation. This is not to say you shouldn’t marry from other denominations.
On many platforms on social media, you can see someone posting something and other people criticizing it to be an odd post. The only reason is the “POINT OF VIEW” of the parties involved.
You can see a husband and a wife fighting over the remote of a television set just because each wants to watch a program of interest and you think they are being petty? No, you may also be fighting over who should take the children to school but for those couple it’s not an issue at all.
About television issues eeh! I have a brother who always keeps the remote anytime he sits to watch and sometimes even takes it along with him if he is going to do something away from the sitting hall. Gracefully, we all let him have it since we all want peace and consider it normal but if he takes it to his marriage and meets a wife who is also like him, what do you think will always happen in their matrimonial home?
Some couple even fights over issues such as where the wife puts the cup of water being served to the husband alongside his food. Hahaha! You think its petty right? It does happen and you also think it’s petty because of “THE POINT OF VIEW” with which you consider things.
Trivial is relative when it comes to “THE POINT OF VIEW”, nothing is too small or big.
The only best solution for “THE POINT OF VIEW” is “COMPROMISING”. Without it, all human institutions will never see peace.

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😲😲THE EYE OPENING HOUR😳😳

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IN TIMES LIKE THESE, BE WATCHFUL.

1 Kings 19:2 Then Jezebel sent a messenger unto Elijah, saying, So let the gods do to me, and more also, if I make not thy life as the life of one of them by to morrow about this time. 19:3 And when he saw that, he arose, and went for his life, and came to Beersheba, which belongeth to Judah, and left his servant there. 19:4 But he himself went a day’s journey into the wilderness, and came and sat down under a juniper tree: and he requested for himself that he might die; and said, It is enough; now, O LORD, take away my life; for I am not better than my fathers.

Most often, we go through pains and we speak curses upon ourselves which take effect after we are out of that situation. Elijah, the man who slapped the river…

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There is always a one

Are you facing a challenge?

Do you always get unsuccessful and unhappy day?

Do suitors come and go like the down pour of rain?

Are you about to give up on God because your prayers are not answered?

Do you want to terminate life because of unsuccessful job hunting?

What about unsuccessful projects?

The good news is that “There is always a one”.

Yes, “There Is Always a One” good day out of the lot bad days meant to change your story.

“There Is Always a One” challenge that is meant to push you out of your comfort zone to a better comfortable zone.

“There Is Always a One” perfect suitor meant for you so don’t feel sad just because all the guys or ladies you hoped will always be there for you are all going like you don’t even exist.

Your hunt for job has never been successful and you think you are not lucky? Wao! Ask Bill Gates how he was pushed to start his own initiative after being denied a job.

Don’t give up on the project you keep on failing with, why? Because Edison after thousands of times of failure was able to bring out the very one thing he had failed to produce (bulb) a hundred times.

You think you are the only one whose prayer seems unheard? No, no, no, there are many others in the same shoe with you.

Do you think you are unlucky with examination? There is a one for you keep on keeping on.

Don’t just stop praying about the child you want to have just because its looks as if God cannot hear you anymore; there is always a one prayer left to be said.

Don’t just retire yet because there is a one good day coming, just one more attempt, and even another one. Just a one more letter or call, just a one more.

Every successful man was one an unsuccessful dreamer who failed at a point in time and almost gave up but didn’t.

Always know that “There Is Always a One” in everything and every situation.

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THE HOLY SPIRIT IS STILL IN THE PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH OF GHANA

This piece is to inform Hon. Naa Moale (former MP for Dade Kotopon) to retract his claim that there is no Holy Spirit in the Presbyterian Church of Ghana which he made on Nana Yaw Kesse of Piece fm (104.3)’s show (the “Platform”) and as a member, I don’t take it lightly and would like him to use same platform to apologies to all Presbyterians in this country and beyond.
The former MP on a program hosted by Mr. Yaw Kesse called “The Platform” (the 25th May, 2017 version) said the “Holy Spirit in PCG is dead and there is no Holy Spirit working in the Presbyterian Church of Ghana” which is far from the truth. Of course he is entitled to his opinion but he has no right to malign the Presbyterian Church of Ghana. Mr. Kesse asked him and he insisted on that nonfactual articulation.
I was born a Presbyterian and have been a Presbyterian for over thirty years and have been into deliverance/spiritual ministrations since the age of 16 whiles I was in the Junior Youth (a group in the PCG) and still am. My senior brother as well as my junior brother Asiedu Gyawu Paul and Kingzlove Philemon are also Presbyterians and are all into deliverance ministry so I can boldly tell him he is wrong with that fact.
Now these are but a few of people who I can boldly say are into deliverance ministry; Rt. Rev. Prof. Emmanuel Martey, Cat. Abooffei, Samuel Larbi-Gyimah, Rev. Seth Ofosu Asamani, Rev. Awuku-Gyampo, Rev. Gilbert Nugbah, Cat. Ramsford Akyea and many, many Ministers, Evangelists, Catechists and the many individuals who are vessels through whom the Holy Spirit manifests almost every day. This list is the minutest of the percentage of the number of spiritual individuals in the Presbyterian Church of Ghana. Now to talk of sound teachings and all the other gifts of the Holy Spirit, you can find them in the PCG.
How does he feel when someone says something about him or his party that is not true?
He must know that not only is he talking against the PCG but the Holy Spirit himself and must use the same platform and any other platform possible to apologies to the PCG and the Holy Spirit. This piece is not to raise the anger of the members of PCG against him but he must apologies and make sure it will never be repeated. Not only him but to all politicians who do same must desist from such behaviours. I wouldn’t seek his punishment because he can never stand if a word of prayer is said against him but I rather have said a word of prayer for him that the merciful Lord should have mercy on him. There are Presbyterians in his party and I ask him to enquire from them how the Holy Spirit moves in our services.
The PCG remains the Oldest, Progressive and Sustaining Spiritual Church in Ghana and nothing will change, the truth will always be said by Presbyterians and so the earlier they accept the fact and change their attitude towards us, the better.
My platform is small as compared to his but I hope it will surely get to the concerned individuals involved for the necessary steps to be taken.